At DoLifeBig, I want us to maximize every ounce of life. But when this ambition trends towards things and accomplishments, we’ve lost the way. So here’s a good reminder of what’s really important. Of what lasts. Of where our real ambition and passion should lie…
35 Things I Hope My Kids Will Say About Me
1. “He loved us” I could see it in his words, his face, and his actions.
2. “He loved our mom” And was always faithful to her.
3. “He was honest” Both to us and to others. I never remember him telling a lie.
4. “He was
spiritual Godly” He valued things bigger than this world… and kept his eyes open for them.
5. “He worked hard” He understood the value of a hard day’s work and wasn’t afraid of it.
6. “But he always came home on time” He worked hard at his job. But he knew when to quit for the day.
7. “He cared about people more than money.” (My edit: And his checkbook reflected it!)
8. “He was a good friend” He taught me what that meant in a world that doesn’t.
9. “He helped others” He looked for opportunities to serve… especially those who couldn’t help themselves.
10. “He was generous” with his home, his money, his time, and his energy.
11. “He made us laugh” It was always fun to spend time with him.
12. “He loved to read” He read for work, for pleasure, and for self-improvement.
13. “He loved life” He cherished all the moments of life – the big ones and the little ones.
14. “He always had great hope” His hope was new, it was alive, and it was lasting.
15. “He had our best in mind” We were disciplined, but it never felt motivated by anger… only love.
16. “He was proud of us” And he told us often.
17. “But he pushed us to improve” He parented out of love and a genuine desire for us to succeed.
18. “He saw the best in people” And sought to learn from them.
19. “He loved his family” He cared for his parents and loved having everyone together.
20. “He was always good to mom.” His love for her provided a healthy model for my family.
21. “He had a smile every morning” Each day provided a wealth of opportunity. And he chose to greet it with a smile.
22. “He lived within his means” We were taken care of. We did fun stuff. We had nice things. But he knew where to draw the line.
23. “He was unselfish” Life was always about more than getting the most for yourself.
24. “He was wise” He had a healthy grasp on people, life, and situations.
25. “He was quick to forgive” He knew that he had been forgiven much. And was quick to offer that same grace to others.
26. “He didn’t let culture dictate his beliefs”
27. “I knew I could count on him when I needed him” - anytime, day or night.
28. “For some reason, I couldn’t get away with lying to him” He demanded honesty and I respected that. He could read me too well.
29. “He was always asking about my friends” He wanted to know everything he could about the people I chose to spend time with.
30. “He knew how to rest” He knew when and how to take time refreshing his body and soul.
31. “He dreamed big dreams for me” Even when I didn’t believe in myself, he did.
32. “He loved eating meals together”
33. “He treated his body well” He knew the importance of keeping his body healthy – not for vain reasons, but to remain effective to this world as long as possible.
34. “He loved his job” He worked hard not because of the money, but because he believed in what he did.
35. “He knew the difference between want and need.”
This was shared with me by my father-in-law (who is living this list, btw) from the Becoming Minimalist blog. Friends and family, how am I doing? Where can I improve?
QUESTION: What would you add? How are you making these a reality?